Definitions for "Incongruence"
Lack of congruence; incongruity.
Contradiction or conflict between parts of yourself, beliefs, values or actions. Maybe sequential - one action followed by another that contradicts it - or simultaneous - positive words expressed with a doubtful voice tone.
A state of being "at odds" with oneself, having "parts" in conflict with each other. Evidenced by having reservations, being not totally committed to an outcome, expressing incongruent messages where there is a lack of alignment or matching between verbal and non-verbal parts of the communication.
when goals, values, thoughts, behaviours, the conscious and unconscious minds are out of rapport or agreement.
Keywords:  i'll, sure, well
Well, uh... sure I'll do that.